Strength of a Man & Beauty of a Woman

Strength of a Man

The strength of a man isn’t seen in the width of his shoulders.
It is seen in the width of his arms that encircle you.

The strength of a man isn’t in the deep tone of his voice.
It is in the gentle words he whispers.

The strength of a man isn’t how many buddies he has.
It is how good a buddy he is with his kids.

The strength of a man isn’t in how respected he is at work.
It is in how respected he is at home.

The strength of a man isn’t in how hard he hits.
It is in how tender he touches.

The strength of a man isn’t how many women he’s Loved by.
It is in can he be true to one woman.

The strength of a man isn’t in the weight he can lift.
It is in the burdens he can understand and overcome.

Beauty of a Woman

The beauty of a woman
Is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure she carries,
Or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman
Must be seen from her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman
Is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman
Is reflected in her soul.

It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
The passion that she shows,
The beauty of a woman
With passing years-only grows.

Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman,

but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man..

中秋节快乐!

中秋节快乐!想起来,原来自己有约2年没有玩过灯笼了。 刚过的昨天,兴致勃勃地和家人把以前旧的灯笼都找了出来点了。一共有21个。20个纸灯笼,一个‘乌龟’灯笼。

看见那么多灯笼总会勾起许多童年的回忆。不过最特别的一段 应该就是和下面这只乌龟灯笼有关的。它是我小5,还是6的时候(不是很记得了)的美术节作品。 其实也不晓得为什么自己当初会选择做乌龟灯笼了。可能是在市场上找不到吧。 当时林老师也有好奇问,你是买回来的吗?是自己做的吗?哈哈。。。。。。

看回它,原来它也一把年纪了。。。呵呵。。。幸好它还是被保存着。。。有的东西失去了,恐怕以后都找不回了。

乌龟灯笼

《窗外》 2007+2009

词曲:kyle 编曲:kokka by: Fujin Nize

2009年9月尾重录《窗外》。。。悄悄放上来。。。

感觉是不一样了。。。录的时候心情也蛮窗外的。。。
听起来也算比较贴近自己的声音吧。。。

不小心发现+听到这新版本的你,你喜欢哪一个版本呢?

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《退出》

词:windy 曲:clys 编曲:cabella

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Who you are is not predetermined

You can’t see the truth about what is going on unless you take time to be honest and deal with your relationship issues. You’re keeping too many people at arm’s length — just what are you afraid of? Today, put away your fears and you will be able to learn a valuable lesson about your insecurities — like how unwarranted they are. Who you are is not predetermined, you are a work in process. You can make all the changes you want to make, you just have to start.

愤怒。气愤

你讨厌那个人,然后你在心里或背后咒骂他,你认为你是在骂他吗?他根本就不知道,你怎么可能在骂他,你是在骂你自己。你很气某人,憎恨某人,你认为你是在恨他吗?不,你其实是在恨自己,因为在你恨任何人之前,你必须先在你内在制造恨的毒素。唯有你有某样东西,你才能将这样东西给别人,唯有充满愤怒你才能去气愤。所以,在你伤害别人之前,你已经先伤害自己。假如你扛一袋垃圾给别人,是谁一路扛著它,是谁一路上闻著垃圾的臭味?当然是你。不管你对别人做了什么,那个真正接收的人,并不是别人,而是你自己。紧抓著怨恨不放,就像是把自己装满发臭的垃圾,却想薰死别人,这不是很蠢吗?

Is that so?

You have to deal with someone who has a pretty large ego today, but you’ll have fun dealing with their arrogance. This person thinks they know everything about everything, and probably won’t be too open to your input and ideas. This is just as well, because why would you want to contribute to a project or plan that you know they’re going to take all the credit for anyway? Do what they tell you to do and don’t waste your time trying to correct their mistakes.

好眼泪 坏眼泪

只希望 在我不再想你了之後
有好的眼泪慢慢流
有好的笑容陪著我

by: 徐若瑄 《好眼泪坏眼泪 》

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You and a new person on the scene make a good combination

Working in tandem with a new associate or friend will yield some entertaining rewards, so don’t be shy about starting a new group project today! Roll up your sleeves and get ready to get going as soon as you hear about something that sounds interesting. Travel may be involved, too. You and this other person make a very good combination — because you balance each other out and challenge each other not to think in the same old ways you’re used to thinking. Read the rest of this entry »

月牙湾

敦煌古墓的沙粒
带着我们的际遇
我从半路看回去
这秦关漫漫好蜿踞

梦想穿过了西域
包含了多少的缠意
爱情像一本游记
我会找寻它的密语

看..月牙湾下的泪光
在丝路之上被遗忘

是谁的心啊孤单的留下
他还好吗我多想爱他
那永恒的泪那一句话
也许可能蒸发

是谁的爱啊又为谁降下
轻声呼唤就让我融化
那一滴雨水演化成我翅膀
向着我爱的人追吧

by: F.I.R 《月牙湾》

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你继续走你的路,问题真的就不存在了吗?

狗在吠,而你在睡觉,你说它们在吵你,但它们是在吵你吗?它们怎么可能吵你,它们根本不知道你在睡觉,对吗?狗吠是自然不过的事,不吠才有问题。但是你却把狗吠变成了问题:为什么它们会一直乱叫?真是吵死人?它们为什么不快点闭嘴。但它们为什么要闭嘴?你睡你的,它叫它的,如果你不抗拒、不排斥,那它们怎么可能吵到你?

你在走路,而狗追了过来对你狂吠,你说它在吠你,但它是在吠你吗?不,它才不管你是谁–是警察或是小偷,是好人或是坏人, 它逢人便吠,而你正巧碰上,就这样而已。它的吠叫真的没什么意义,然而你却因为他的吠叫而生起了一连串不愉快的想法。何必呢?

如果你以一种抗争的态度面对生命,你当然会觉得所有的问题好像冲著你来,狗吠是冲著你来,周遭的人事物似乎都在找你麻烦。但是如果你根本不在乎,你不以为意,那么, 突然间,他们继续叫,而你继续睡觉 ; 他们继续狂叫,而你继续走你的路,问题也就不存在。 Read the rest of this entry »

信念的奥妙

心情就像一块磁铁。

当你愉快时,美好的事就会被你吸引过来。

当你悲观、提不起劲时,厌烦的你将面对更多厌烦的事。

这就是信念的奥妙。

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